I used to get bothered when someone said hurtful things to me like that would depress me for days. I would make sure I tried to be in their good books so they would take back their words. But I realised even if they take back their words, they still said it and it is what it is. I decided to listen but stopped caring because if it was a constructive criticism then I would appreciate it but if people just constantly find something to criticise me about then I sensed hateocrisy going on. Not everyone will like me in this world, throwing shade at me everytime they get the chance to and knocking me down…it is what it is!!